I'm a woman. Got a Mocke. Doesn't get in the way, though it's a bit big. Seems a size, rather than gender thing. Otherwise I have a 20 year old waterskiing PFD which is wonderful as it has big arm cutouts but is very snug, an advantage when it is cold and/or I am pushing the limits a bit and have to do a lot of remounts. Doesn't get snagged on stuff.
Past skis: Spirit PRS, EpicV10Sport Performance, Epic V10 Elite, Stellar SES Advantage. Current skis: Fenn Elite Spark, Fenn Swordfish vacuum. Custom Horizon, Epic V7